Topic starter : Sunday, November 8, 2009 (12:26 pm)

Couple of days ago, I was watching a TV show, nearly at the end of its show.

There was an old woman who was being hypnotized by the talent of the show.

Under that “spell”, she was singing a heartbreaking song about a man who left his wife for another woman.


I don’t know why but hearing her singing that song, I immediately jumped into conclusion that she might be singing the story of her life.

And somehow I guess I was right.

Right after the talent of the show released her from the hypnotize, she then said that she hated men but she didn’t want to talk about it any further, she only said that as for the moment, she only lived for her children only.


I felt sad when hearing her said that, I could sense her bitterness when saying those words and those looks in her face.

Wondering what that one specific man (this case I assumed it’s her husband or should I say, ex husband) had done to her that made her come to that state.


I guess I have this tendency on blaming women in terms of affairs.

I hate myself for thinking this way but just can’t help but feeling this way :p

Maybe because I know men are weak, especially when it comes to the temptation of women!

You know the famous sayings..

Men fall for women whileas women fall for money?!

Sadyly to say but reality speaks that way in general.


It’s a woman’s job to stay away from any unavailable men!

I still can’t understand whyy oohh whyy..

A woman have a heart to hurt another woman!



Ahahaha.. another old post from my blog :p

Looks like I’ve talked too much in my writings that I couldn’t even remember what I’ve been talking about all these times, ahahaha 😀

But I stumbled upon one posting that’s kinda related to my previous notes here.

It’s about.. children (again) :p

Well.. I guess something just never changed, ehh?

Originally this was posted on August 19, 2008.

And the link of the original post is :


Hmm hmm kalimat berikut ini udh lumayan lama gua denger di Oprah, di episode tentang anak2 yg ortunya bercerai.

Yg ngomong adl psikolog terbaik dlm menangani anak2 ‘hasil’ perceraian. Hehehe.. Saya lupa nama Bapak, Pak, hihihi :p

Dia bilang gini :

When you’re talking bad things about your spouse in front of your children it’s like blaming their DNA!’

Woww wooww.. It’s so very true yaa..

Krn children itu khan having half DNA of their father and the other half is from their mother.

Eheemm.. Sptnya seeh gt, haha, gua mana ngerti soal DNA2-an, hahaha :p

Soo, parents of the world, please watch your mouth, especially when you’re having any arguments with your husband or wife ’cause usually when emotions take over, the harsh words will flow.

Just bite your tongue when it happens and try to hold it as long as you can before you take part in damaging your own children’s souls.

But you know what, D.. Sometimes I think children need to be updated with the real life situation their parents’ are in so that they won’t be living in any illusional life which is fake.

I believe that once in a while they need to see and hear their parents ‘open war’ so that they know that it’s okay having some arguments once in a while in a marriage.

That way, they will have a more realistic perspective of what marriage life would be.

Unlike me who has been so fed up with Cinderella syndrome, with the famous tag : ‘And they live happily ever after!’

By saying ‘happily’, what stick in my head means that there will be no fightings and arguments at all. Which by the way when you live in a real world that’s almost impossible, right?


Sabtu, 21 Maret 2009


Actually, I’ve been meaning to write about another topic buat postingan kali ini.

Tapi lagi2 harus tertunda karena ya ‘boo, gua ngga tau musti ngebahas apa tentang topik itu, hahaha :p


Berhubung mentok, tadi pagi gua nonton film aja dhe, kali ini yang dapat giliran adalah filmnya Leonardo di Caprio & Kate Winslet, film berjudul ‘Revolutionary Road’.

Ada yang udah pernah nonton?

And after seeing this movie, I realized something..

Emang bener mendingan gua tuh jangan baca2 review tentang suatu film sebelum nonton filmnya, hahaha..

Karena ada salah satu blogger yang nulis di blognya kalau dia nangis2 nonton nih film.


Instead of focusing on the movie itself, gua malah sibuk menerka2 bagian mana seeh yang bikin dia sampai nangis2, hihihi :p

Faktor itu ditambah faktor subtitle yang ngga match ama apa yang diomongin sehingga terpaksa di-off-in, masalahnyaa..

Kalau ngga ada subtitle gini maaahh bisa mati gaya nontonnya, hahaha, secara gua jadi ga bisa sepenuhnya ngerti cerita filmnya :p


Karena faktor2 di atas, I might miss the things yang mustinya bisa gua pelajari dari film ini.

Tapi satu yang ngga luput gua dapatkan dari film ini adalah mengenai..

A cry for help..

Yupp.. That’s the thing I learn from this movie ^o^

How oftentimes we missed other’s cry for help and they miss ours.

Iya, jeritan putus asa terselubung yang mungkin terkadang kita lontarkan tanpa sadar.

Dengan harapan agar mereka yang mendengarnya cukup sensitif untuk tau bahwa kita sedang minta tolong.

Itu yang gua tangkap dari tokoh April yang diperankan Kate Winslet.


Last Saturday, I went out to meet Rosemary, it has been quite a while since the last time I saw her on her wedding day in early 2008.

We chatted about lots of thing and one of the thing we talked was about children.

I like questioning things and I like questioning myself about many things in my life, for example : the right reason(s) to get married, at least the right one for me cause this is personal so I have to ask myself to find out the answer(s) for what’s right for me might not be right for you and vise versa.

Back to children, Rosemary and I talked about why did people want to have children.

I think one of the most common answer is to take care of them when they’re old.

Hmm.. I’m not saying it’s wrong but I think it’s not the right reason for me.

Some parents I know bluntly demand their children to support their old lives.

Hmm.. I don’t know..

I don’t think parents should demand that to their children.

I always believe when you’ve raised your children in the right way where they can feel that they’re loved.. you wouldn’t have to ask for them to support you in your golden days for they will be willingly to take care of you without you have to demand that to them.


Hujan.. siapa yang ngga senang senang ama yang namanya hujan? Bukan gua pastinya karena I love rain!!

Dimulai dari cuaca yang berubah jadi lebih adem pas lagi hujan, belon lagi tetesan air yang jatuh dari langit, isn’t it amazing?

Coba dhe perhatikan, biasanya ada ritmenya lho tuh air hujan.. coba dengarkan suara nyanyiannya sambil kalian pejamkan mata kalian dan biarkan pikiran kalian mengembara ke mana dia mau.